Saturday, January 27, 2007

Why?

Today is the last time I will explain why I stay with my man...

I am with him because I Love him. I don't expect you to understand the depths of my love for him it is clear you have never been able to communicate with another person the way we do, if you did there would never be the question of "why are you doing this to yourself?" or "You know he's only going to do it again". I understand that at any moment he can decide to walk away from me but I also know that your man can decide the same thing while he's driving down the street today. Just because we are separated by walls, miles and bars doesn't effect the love and bond that we build everyday. I am not the most spiritual person but through him I have found a deeper understanding of many things and I thank him for that. I am with him because of who I am, I was given a man that loves me unconditionally, 100% can you say the same? While he isn't able to buy me fancy things its okay because the way he looks at me, or the tingle i get from a letter is more valuable than any materialistic item your man has bought you because he messed up! Don't judge my relationship simply because we aren't physically together, admire my relationship because when we are together it will be based on a higher level of understanding, commitment, and love that is only given to us by a higher power.

Ladies, when you begin to feel down and out remember that you are absolutely FABULOUS! We are a small group of people that deal with a monster of an issue and we do it with grace, confidence, love and we are the true definition of what a women is....

Take a minute to pat yourself on the back!!!!