Thursday, July 05, 2007

Am I too Jealous?

About a month ago a woman from my husbands past wrote him. She stated that she has been looking for him for over twenty years. (Not to hard to find him considering he is on the drc website). Raven asked what I thought about him writing her. At the time I said I didn't have a problem with it, but in my opinion most woman from a man's past will eventually cause trouble.
She wrote and asked all kinds of questions about him and I. How we met? What we did? How did we get married? Shoveled some shit about wanting to be friends with me. (yea right)

Raven gave her my email and we emailed each other a couple of times. She sent her phone number and wanted Raven to call her. It is a cell number so its a moot issue anyway since cell phones can't accept collect calls from a prison. Raven said I should call her to see what she is like and to get to know her. I did.

Raven says she was trying to push my buttons. I say she was trying to cause trouble. One of the first things she said is that it was stupid to fall in love with an inmate. Then she tells me she had a crush on my husband who was fifteen at the time. (she was eighteen) The final straw was when she asked if she could visit. I told her I didn't care as long as I was there. She said "what I can't visit him by my self?" What reason would a woman have to visit a man alone, especially if he is someone else's husband. She also tells me how her and her husband never vacation together. Hello I got married to the man I love so we could spend time together not to spend time with another man. So by now I am definitely not feeling her.

When I told Raven what was said he said not to let it bother me and he didn't give a shit whether he ever contacted her again. We talked about it and decided that, The past should be just that THE PAST!

Ps. After the call she wrote to him and sent him her number. Said sorry I pissed off your wife, why don't you call me. HELL NO! Over it.

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